"Please don 't take down my post again Incredibly rude and inappropriate behavior is based on the fact that: I attempted be a customer, however was treated so poorly by the employee or owner prior to having a chance to order that I was not able to. You 'll see other posts from asian customers who had terrible experiences so there 's a theme: Combination of racism and elitism I had brought my wife, 3 month old son and dog here to have lunch. Upon parking, my son was being fussy so I let my dog out to relieve herself in the bushes, while my wife remained in the car to try and calm my son down. I had parked next to a BMW and upon returning to the car, my son began crying. Acknowledging it was best not to disturb the restaurant customers, we decided to go to the park down the street and I could walk back to order lunch to-go. As I 'm entering my car, a bald white man driving a Mercedes in the parking lot speeds by me and parks his car intensely (i.e. speeding and braking hard). Before I start to leave, the man (either an employee or the owner) who is wearing a Bar Bocce uniform points at me to stop me from leaving like I 'm some criminal. I rolled down my window, and he tells me the BMW next to me has a dent in it and accuses me of hitting it when I opened my door. He then proceeds to hold us hostage, forcing me to prove that I did not hit the BMW by opening my door and showing that the dent (which I don 't even believe was there) was misaligned to where my car door would have intersected with the the BMW. He then says ok you 're good, you can go as if I was being released from an interrogation room. My son is wailing in the back seat the entire time, but he does not care one bit. He did not apologize for wrongfully accusing me or for holding my family up and making them uncomfortable. In fear for my wife and child, I complied. For those who have experienced racism in a predominant white neighborhood, you should understand why. As a side note, I am respectful of other people 's property. The parking spot was small, but whenever I open my door in smaller spaces, I always place my hand between the area that might touch another car to ensure I don 't ding another car. Just because of my ethnicity and the fact that I 'm not driving a fancy car, does not mean my family and I should be treated as less than human. If you have any respect for equality, please boycott this restaurant."
