"Hi, I 'm a musician and I was in Offenbach for the Riviera Festival on 3rd September. Before my performance at Robert Johnson, we wanted to eat somewhere close by and nice. It was all okayish until the waitress interrupt out conversation to ask questions like: Are you from Iran? while she was taking the empty plates which were full of oil that I believe it was not even olive oil. And while she was not believing that we were not from Iran, and we were not telling where we come from, she was so busy how can 't we come from, she was not aware of that she was holding the plates and knives not so tidly, so the oil were dripping on my phone and on my pants. When I said please be careful, you are dripping oil on my phone She was saying sorry and laughing at the same time, and saying haha it 's me ...??? I had really hard time to understand why is this happening and I didn 't want to focus on such an unpleasant situation before I hit the stage. We asked for the bill and I wanted to get away from there asap. She brought the bill quite late, I paid by card. For 4-5 tapas, 2 cava and 2 whisky, 92 euro sounded too much but I couldn 't bother to check cause we had to leave to the performance. When I came back to Berlin, I was doing my taxes and I checked the bill. She added a bottle of prosecco that costs 32 euros that we never had. I 'm sick and tired of the question Where are you from? although I understand if you want to start a conversation. But it is so 90 's. Get creative. And sometimes just leave people alone. You don 't have to have conversation if they are not up for it. You don 't own them. Because they are queer trans black and people of color and because you are white, it doesn 't mean you own them and their body. It does not mean that you have the full access to their table, conversations. It doesn 't mean you can serve them poorly and not even feel sorry about it. My job was having my meal on time, not drinking more than a glass of cava so I can deliver a performance that I invisioned, and be at the venue on time to perform. Why can 't she do her job? I worked in a Cafe until I can live by my music. I worked as a cook as baker, as a waiter. So I 'm not talking from a superior place. All she need to do is three things. Don 't make your guests uncomfortable and they are not your friends, be kind but you don 't even have to be friendly and serve and get the bill correctly. So, i feel super violated, unseen and cheated. I don 't know if they can read this message but I do wish to get that 32 euros and the 8 Euro tip back I gave despite everything until I get to know that she added 32 euro that I did not consume. They don 't have a website, so I can 't reach. I tried to call but couldn 't reach. At least I got off my chest here and maybe someone reads from them. I have the screen shot of the bill. Thank you for reading,"
